Prayer Strategy: When You Don’t Know What to Pray

by Jane VanOsdol on August 16, 2010

Jane VanOsdol

Have you ever received a piece of news that just about knocked you off your feet?

It may be that everyone else around you could see it coming, but for whatever reason, you were blindsided by the revelation. That happened to me a few years ago. It was a challenging situation to handle, and I knew I needed to pray about it; honestly, I didn’t have even one idea of how to go about that. The situation was so overwhelming and foreign to me that I didn’t know where to begin.

About that time I heard about the idea of prayer strategies.

While this is not a new concept, it was new to me at the time. Basically the idea is to ask the Lord to reveal to you how you should pray about a difficult situation. So, that’s what I did.
I set aside some time to pray and ask the Lord to reveal to me through the insight of the Holy Spirit how I could attack this situation with prayer. I asked for some very specific guidelines on how I should pray. I grabbed my journal and then I waited. I find the basis for this in Romans 8:26, 27.
Likewise the Spirit also helps in our weaknesses. For we do not know what we should pray for as we ought, but the Spirit Himself makes intercession for us with groanings which cannot be uttered. Now He who searches the hearts knows what the mind of the Spirit is, because He makes intercession for the saints according to the will of God.”

I also like Psalm 119:169. “Let my cry come before You, O Lord; give me understanding according to Your Word.”


While I was praying, the Holy Spirit began to give me phrases to pray, and many of them had to do with being set free. At the end of that time, I actually had a list of 12 things to pray about. I ran through my list and made sure that none of the ways I was going to pray conflicted with scripture. And they didn’t. You should always make sure that your prayer strategy lines up with scripture, because the Holy Spirit will not ask you to pray for things that are contrary to scripture.
Since I could see the theme of freedom in these prayer requests, I then looked up some specific scriptures dealing with freedom that I could pray in this situation. I was so relieved to go from not knowing how to pray to having a very detailed prayer strategy in place. I then started praying and trusted God with the results.

“How long do I keep doing this?” you may be wondering.

Well, every situation is different. Often times we don’t get to see the results of our prayers. Some requests may need years of intercession; others only a short time. Basically, as long as God still puts the request on your heart or until you see victory in the area is how long you should keep praying. God will release you from the prayer burden when it is time.
I would encourage you that if you are feeling overwhelmed with a situation to ask God for a prayer strategy.You will go from feeling helpless to being powerfully equipped to pray your way through.
Drop me a comment and let me know if you try this or have ever done the same thing yourself.
Pray on!

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Beth Jones August 20, 2010 at 8:28 am

Jane, I LOVE this post and LOVE the pic! Great graphic. I need to do this “prayer strategy” with a situation right now, because I’m not sure what the deal is. :D Thanks for the tip!

Jane VanOsdol August 20, 2010 at 9:40 am

You are welcome, Beth! It has really helped me when I was at a loss on how to handle a long-term situation. I am so glad we have a God who is all about the details! : )

rose August 24, 2010 at 4:13 am

hi Jane,
thanx for this post i really enjoyed reading it however am also facing a crisis of my own and my faith in God is getting compromised i feel like prayer is no longer working as i have prayed for certain things but its like God just does not answer wat do i do

Jane VanOsdol August 24, 2010 at 3:31 pm

Dear Rose,
Thank you so much for leaving this comment and for your honesty. I understand how you feel, because I have been there myself! I have a few thoughts on what you are saying.

1) A statement jumped out to me last night in a book I am reading right now. The book is Experiencing Prayer With Jesus by Henry and Norman Blackaby. Chapter 3 starts out by saying, “Prayer is not for the purpose of getting God to help us…but for getting us in line with what God is about to do. Prayer is God’s invitation to enter His throne room so He can lay His agenda over our hearts.”

This hit me pretty powerfully. I need to be ready to leave my agenda for what I am praying for in case God has something else in mind. As an example, maybe I am praying that I will be offered a job I just interviewed for, but God has a different position in mind for me.

This doesn’t really help me with things that I know are always in line with God’s will to pray for, such as a loved one’s salvation. What if you have prayed for this for a long time and don’t see any progress? Well, I think one thing we need to keep in mind is that God’s timetable is not always the same as ours. When God first promised to make Abraham a great nation in Genesis 12, Abraham was 75 years old. He did not father Isaac until he was 100. That was 25 long years, and Abraham and Sarah tried to make it happen through Sarah’s maidservant–not God’s plan.

But look what God said in Genesis 18:14 “Is anything too hard for the Lord? At the appointed time I will return to you, according to the time of life, and Sarah shall have a son.”

Even Jesus could not act outside of God’s timing as shown in several places, including John 7:6, “My time has not yet come, but your time is always ready.” Also, look at Galatians 4:4 “But when the fullness of the time had come, God sent forth His Son,born of a woman ….”

So then does that mean that our prayers don’t really matter? No. In an amazing way, God uses the prayers of the saints (Christians) to bring about His will on earth. Look at Ezekiel 22:30 where God is talking, “So I sought for a man among them who would make a wall, and stand in the gap before Me on behalf of the land, that I should not destroy it; but I found no one.” And Isaiah 59:15-16, ” …Then the Lord saw it, and it displeased Him That there was no justice. He saw that there was no man, And wondered that there was no intercessor;”

It may be our prayers that work to help mature our loved one and bring her to the place where she can understand salvation. It may be our prayers that bring a person to repentance. While it may seem that your prayers aren’t bringing any results, we can’t see what is going on in the heavenlies. We have God’s promise that He hears our prayers and that they are powerful!

“The effective, fervent prayer of a righteous man avails much.” James 5:16

“But certainly God has heard me; He has attended to the voice of my prayer. Blessed be God, Who has not turned away my prayer, Nor His mercy from me!”

So, Rose, I think God wants us to keep praying. Even if someone is not healed to earth (like we want), but God heals Him to heaven, we never know how our prayers may have sustained him and even ushered him into heaven.

I also think that sometimes God wants us to reach out to others for help. If we are praying for an abusive spouse to stop hurting us, then we have every right to reach out to the resources God has put in place to help us in our church and our community. That very well could be our answer to that prayer.

Sorry this answer is so long, but I have struggled with the very same things myself! Keep on praying, Rose! God will use your prayers and bless you. The enemy wants you to be discouraged, because he knows the power in prayer.

Let me know if this helps at all. God bless you!

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